In which things that occur in your life are of your doing? Do you affect the good and the bad? I know the answer but I don’t know your life so I can’t say how much responsibility you assume. What I do know is knowing the role you play in all of this is important–through success and failure. There’s power in willing yourself through adversity or succeeding after a rigorous trial. But if you weren’t capable of those feats, what would your role have been? We seem to know exactly what that role is when we fail. You’ve got to examine yourself in both outcomes.